Stream of consciousness writing in my perimenopausal years:
        aging and dying               gloom             desperation               mood swings               symptoms               philosophizing
 
My nose is numb  
Yet still I drink this smoky whisky.  
Why?  
A search for knowing oblivion  
A hope of inspiration  
And a satisfactory blankness.  
I know why writers drink,  
I know why they fall into craziness -  
To reduce the pressure in their heads  
To escape the ever increasing pain  
 And block the panic.  

Print is the purgative of poets  
Reducing the pressure -  
A blowhole for sanity  
Else pressure builds and the only  
Escape  
Is into madness  
Knowing the result but unable  
To bear it.  
Unable to bear the pressure  
A physical  
Outward  
Pressure  
Threatening to burst and annihilate the mind.  
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June 1984  

Surrounded by an invisible wall  
I feel suspended,  
Poised,  
Balanced precariously.  
Only by a total lack of movement  
Can I preserve myself  
From disaster.  
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Sept 2, 84  

The uses of sex are many and various  
Desiring sex serves so many purposes  
Do I desire sensual thrill  
Or psychic comfort?  
An assurance of value, warmth and closeness?  
Do I desire my mind distracted?  
Is this for fun or therapy?  
Whatever, I DO desire  
And without it, I SHALL need therapy...  
Hopeless, unwanted, filled with tension  
So easily sublimated into rage...  
I am in danger of blocking, retreating  
Hiding under the bed or running....  
A deathly deadness creeps through my chest  
And I despair.  
Knowledge of stupidity and futility  
The dangers of negative self-talk  
Is no deterrrent  
I cannot - or will not -  
Overcome this.  

An offer now of sex would be rejected  
Feeling it just that - an offer of service  
Greatly desired but now cause for offence...  

Sometimes company is hard to bear  
Being a carrot out of reach  
The sight of water realized as mirage  
Or a whiff of smoke to the recently quit.  
A true aloneness is preferable  
Allowing a rational occasion for fantasy.  
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Sept 84  

Despair strikes  
Desperation clutches  
the throat and a  
rigid soul desires  
projected matter  
shattered crockery  
and a self annihilated.  

I would be disappeared  
or would welcome aggression  
An eruption of rage  
Releasing this central tension  
To the periphery  
And thence into space -  
But no.  
Soft rotten muscles prevent it.  
Within me still  
Festers  
The British lie  
That grief is shame  
And self-control is all.  
Thus, muscles remain relaxed  
Heart rate increase but minimally  
And the left brain wins out again.  
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Sept 19, 84  

Sphere, symbolic of myself  
Pulsates gently  
Emitting, transmitting and receiving  
On varying wavelengths,  
Receptive of others and  
Lovingly outgiving.  
Then a black humor descends  
A concentrated hormone or psychic shift  
And this soft sphere contracts  
Constricts  
Cramps viciously to leaden pea -  
Rigid, dense, impossible to penetrate.  
Transmission ceases  
And fear of lasting entrapment  
Causes panic and greater cramp.  

If you love me  
Be tough, be mean, and beat me  
So that erupting with rage  
I may escape this trap  
And expand again to life.  
 (But please be sure to hold me down  
 Sufficiently to save YOUR skin...)  
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Sept 22, 1984  

Only on the dog days of despair  
Do I have a true feeling of self as SELF  
ME, to be guarded and pondered.  
Otherwise, I am becoming more diffuse  
Less of an island, more of an ocean.  
There can be no greater disaster  
Than to fall into the black hole of one's own centre  
To be lost to the world and others.  

Sphere constricts  
Shrinks into danger  
Danger of black hole  
A disappearance of self  
Irretrievable  
Catatonia?  
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